My daughter came to me in a wonderful way.  I remember the day like it was yesturday.  The man from child protective came and said there is a baby who is in need of a home. The doctors said she wouldn't make it, but there was something in her that made me not want to give up . I looked at her and held her for three months and she started to thrive . She was an angel nothing more or less.  We took her home and adopted her at age 3. She never could talk and probably never will.  But, the love she gives is so much that she doesn't need to. They said she would never walk or do anything really, but now she walks all over and feeds herself and can do so much.  All you have to do is love and have faith and they will become something more then a child who could never do anything.